Ask three mentees or peers what made them seek your support—note which theme comes up most.
Identify one recurring request for your guidance—what does it reveal about expectations?
Rewrite your personal value statement using only words from feedback you’ve received.
Find your most appreciative mentee—note what they consistently value in your support.
Check the point where people disengage with your work—what might confuse or deter them?
Compare appreciation across contexts—where do people value you most, and why?
Think of a time when someone said, “This is exactly what I needed”—what made that moment possible?
Reflect on a time when an opportunity didn’t work out—was it the right fit for you?
What assumptions have you made about others’ goals—are they accurate?
When were you last surprised by feedback from someone younger—how did you use it?
How often do you ask people about their long-term goals—not just immediate needs?
Which voices get overlooked most—family, mentees, or peers?
Ask three people what their biggest needs are right now—just listen, don’t pitch ideas.
Create a quick empathy map for someone you hope to support—base it on recent talks.
Run a short survey with five people—ask why they value your guidance or work.
Call someone you’ve lost touch with—ask what would bring them back into connection.
Record a one-minute video walking through your offering from the audience’s view.
Review your onboarding approach with someone new—watch where confusion arises.
Ask someone you’ve helped: “If you recommended me to a friend, what would you say?”—note the exact words.
Send a short two-question feedback form to five people you’ve supported—what’s clear, what’s confusing?
Ask someone you’ve helped: “Which part of my support mattered most—and which less?”
Invite someone you’ve guided to share what first built their trust in you—and what keeps it.
Share three possible headlines for your work—ask which one feels most relevant.
Interview someone you’ve helped: “How would you explain what I do to another person?”
Shift from “I can help anyone” to “Here’s who I best support and why they value it.”
Change “I bring lots of experience” to “I solve this specific need in a unique way.”
Reframe complaints as signals—what hidden opportunity might they reveal?
Replace “I need more people” with “I’ll deepen value with the right people already here.”
Stop asking “What do you want from me?” and start asking “What outcome are you really after?”
Instead of assuming “they left for cost,” ask “what outcome did they not receive?”
Read testimonials or thank-you notes—what words come up most often?
Watch how younger people respond to your guidance—what sparks curiosity or doubt?
Track which offers to help are accepted—what language made the difference?
Observe how long people take to act on your advice—what might cause delays?
Pay attention to questions you often receive—what aren’t people understanding?
Listen for vagueness in requests—what’s not being said out loud?

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