Ask three colleagues what they value most in your support—note which theme comes up most often.
Identify one recurring colleague request—what does it reveal about their expectations of you?
Rewrite your contribution statement using only colleague or manager words from feedback.
Find your most appreciative colleague and note what they consistently praise—highlight it in reviews.
Check your most common questions from others—what might confuse or frustrate colleagues?
Compare recent feedback from two managers—who’s happiest, and why?
Recall a moment when a colleague said, “This is exactly what I needed”—what was different that time?
Recall your last missed opportunity—what didn’t land, and was the request truly right for you?
Write about hidden assumptions you’ve made about colleagues’ goals or behaviors.
Recall when you were last surprised by feedback—what did you do with it?
How often do you ask others about long-term goals, not just current needs?
Which voices get overlooked most in your workplace—quiet colleagues, juniors, or new hires?
Ask three coworkers about their biggest current challenges—don’t defend, just listen carefully.
Map out an empathy view of the people you serve internally—what do they need most from you?
Run a “Why me?” survey with five peers—ask why they value working with you.
Reconnect with a colleague you’ve lost touch with—ask what would make collaboration useful again.
Record a 1-minute walkthrough of your contribution to a project from a peer’s perspective.
Review your onboarding experience for a new process—try it yourself and note barriers.
Ask a teammate: “If you recommended me to another team, what would you say?”—note their words.
Send a short survey to teammates: what’s clear about my role, what’s confusing?
Ask colleagues: “Which parts of my work make the biggest impact—and which frustrate you most?”
Invite a colleague to share what first built trust in you—and what sustains it.
Share three different summaries of your role with colleagues—ask which feels most relevant.
Interview a colleague: “How would you explain my role to someone in your department?”
Shift from “I support many groups” to “Here’s who I serve best and why it matters.”
Change “I’m detail-heavy” to “I solve this exact pain in this specific way.”
Reframe complaints as signals—what opportunity is hidden behind that frustration?
Replace “I’m trying to get noticed” with “I’m deepening value with the right people.”
Stop asking “What do you need?” and start asking “What outcome are you really after?”
Instead of assuming disengagement is about pay, explore what outcomes they didn’t achieve.
Read recent client feedback—what phrases repeat across the most positive comments?
Watch client calls—where do they show excitement, and where do they hesitate?
Track which emails get the fastest responses—what subject lines or tone worked best?
Observe how long clients take between signup and first engagement—what causes delay?
Pay attention to client onboarding questions—what do they consistently miss?
Listen for vagueness in client calls—what issues are not being voiced?