Ask a colleague: “What’s one thing I can do this week that would make your job easier?”
Write a one-sentence leadership statement you aspire to—repeat it before taking on a stretch responsibility.
Thank a colleague publicly for their effort—model visible recognition as a professional habit.
Schedule a 15-minute check-in with a colleague today—no agenda, just connection and listening.
Share a personal story or challenge in your team chat—model openness and build connection.
Observe one meeting silently unless essential—practice active presence and focused listening.
Reflect on a leader who positively shaped your career—what behaviors did they consistently demonstrate?
Journal about a recent tough leadership moment—what did you learn about your influence and decision-making?
Write down three leadership strengths you bring—how often do you use them, and where can you improve?
Explore how your leadership style has changed over time—what experiences shaped that evolution?
Reflect on a time you struggled to lead—what did that experience teach you about clarity or confidence?
Think about your leadership “default mode”—is it directive, supportive, coaching, or something else? When is it effective?
Share a vision or goal publicly that stretches your team—invite feedback and commit to supporting the path forward.
Delegate something important that you usually hold onto—trust someone else to deliver and coach instead of doing.
Have a difficult conversation you’ve been avoiding—prepare carefully and prioritize clarity over comfort.
Ask each direct report this week: “What’s one thing you’d change if you were in charge?”
Volunteer to lead a project outside your usual scope—practice influence in a different domain.
During your next meeting, pause and ask: “What am I missing?”—model inclusive leadership behavior.
Ask your team: “When do I lead best—and when do I unintentionally hold us back?”
Request 360 feedback focused only on your leadership impact—listen fully before explaining anything.
Share your leadership goals with a peer—ask them to hold you accountable for one behavior shift.
Invite a team member to share how they perceive your leadership style—look for gaps between intent and impact.
Ask someone who leads differently to describe their approach—what can you borrow or adapt from it?
Discuss with a colleague how each of you builds trust—compare techniques and stories.
Reframe “I need to have all the answers” as “I need to ask the right questions.”
Turn “Being strong means being certain” into “Real strength is adjusting when new information comes.”
Recast “My job is to decide” as “My job is to create conditions for smart decisions to emerge.”
Instead of “I should’ve handled that better,” say “That moment gave me data for next time.”
Shift from “I need to fix this” to “How can I enable the team to solve this together?”
View vulnerability not as weakness but as leadership capital—showing it builds credibility and trust.
Watch your language in meetings—do you lead with certainty, curiosity, or fear? What tone does it set?
Observe how others respond to your presence—do they lean in, hold back, or seek guidance?
Track who speaks and who doesn’t in meetings—what dynamics do you unintentionally reinforce?
Notice your body language when under pressure—are you modeling calm, clarity, or control?
Monitor when you default to “doing” instead of “guiding”—what beliefs are driving that?
Pay attention to how others lead when you're not present—what culture does your leadership leave behind?