Ask your direct reports: “What’s one shift I could make this week that would help you deliver better?”
Draft a one-sentence leadership mantra that reflects how you want to be remembered—read it before calls.
Thank a senior colleague publicly for a contribution—use recognition to reinforce collective standards.
Call one leader outside your team for a 15-minute check-in—listen without agenda or immediate asks.
Share one leadership story that shaped your values—use it to model openness with your team.
Sit silently for one executive meeting unless necessary—practice presence and observation as power.
Journal about a senior leader you admire—what consistent actions built their long-term influence?
Reflect on a difficult leadership moment—what did it teach you about power, trust, and influence?
Write down three leadership strengths you rely on—how often do you use them, and where are gaps?
Reflect on how your leadership style has evolved—what inflection points forced adaptation?
Journal about a time you failed to lead strongly—what did you learn about clarity and conviction?
Reflect on your leadership “default mode”—directive, coaching, or visionary—when does it serve best?
Share a bold vision with your board or executives—invite scrutiny and commit to addressing concerns.
Delegate a high-visibility task you usually keep—coach a direct report instead of doing it yourself.
Hold the difficult conversation you’ve avoided—prioritize candor, fairness, and organizational trust.
Ask direct reports: “What’s one strategic shift you’d make if you held my role?”
Volunteer to lead a transformation initiative outside your usual domain—expand influence.
In your next exec meeting, pause to ask: “What am I not seeing?”—model reflective leadership.
Ask your executive team: “When am I most effective—and when do I unintentionally hold us back?”
Request board-level 360 feedback on your leadership impact—listen fully before offering explanations.
Share your leadership commitments with a fellow CEO—ask them to hold you accountable for one visible shift.
Invite a direct report to share their perception of your leadership style—where does intent diverge from impact?
Ask a fellow senior leader to describe their approach to influence—what could you adapt for yourself?
Compare with a fellow executive how each of you builds trust with teams—share methods and stories.
Reframe “I need to decide everything” as “I need to frame the right questions for others to solve.”
Turn “Strength means certainty” into “Real strength is adapting when evidence shifts.”
Recast “My role is to provide answers” as “My role is to create conditions for sound enterprise decisions.”
Instead of “I mishandled that board discussion,” say “That moment gave me data to refine my approach.”
Shift from “I must fix this” to “How can I empower the executive team to solve this collectively?”
View vulnerability not as weakness but as executive capital—authenticity builds long-term trust.
Watch your language in board or leadership forums—do you project certainty, inquiry, or caution?
Observe how peers respond to your presence—do they lean in for clarity, hedge, or hold back?
Track who speaks freely and who hesitates in exec sessions—what culture are you reinforcing?
Notice your body language under scrutiny—are you modeling steadiness, urgency, or defensiveness?
Monitor when you default to solving yourself versus enabling others—what beliefs drive that shift?
Pay attention to how culture operates when you’re absent—what legacy does your leadership leave behind?

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