Ask your team: “What’s one thing I could do this week to better support how you work together?”
Write a one-sentence leadership mantra that reflects how you want to lead—repeat it before each key interaction.
Thank a teammate publicly for their contribution—recognition builds motivation and performance.
Schedule 15 minutes today to check in informally with a team member—no agenda, just listening.
Share one leadership story or mistake with your team—model openness and build trust.
Observe one meeting without speaking unless essential—practice active presence and careful listening.
Reflect on a leader who shaped your style—what consistent behaviors do you want to model with your own team?
Journal about a difficult leadership moment—what did you learn about your influence on others?
Write down three leadership strengths you bring—how do you use them consistently, and where can you grow?
Explore how your leadership style has evolved—what moments shaped that growth?
Reflect on a time you struggled to lead—what did that teach you about confidence and clarity?
Think about your leadership “default mode”—directive, coaching, or supportive—when does it work best?
Share a vision publicly that stretches your team—invite feedback and commit to supporting the path forward.
Delegate something you normally hold on to—trust a teammate to deliver while you coach from the side.
Have one difficult conversation you’ve been delaying—prioritize clarity and preparation over comfort.
Ask each team member this week: “What’s one thing you’d change if you were in charge?”
Volunteer to lead a project outside your normal scope—practice influence in a new domain.
In your next meeting, pause and ask: “What am I missing?”—model inclusive leadership behavior.
Ask your team: “When do I lead most effectively—and when do I unintentionally hold us back?”
Request 360 feedback focused only on your leadership presence—listen fully before responding.
Share your leadership goals with a peer—ask them to hold you accountable for one concrete shift.
Invite a direct report to share how they perceive your leadership—note gaps between intent and impact.
Ask a leader you respect to describe their approach—what techniques could you borrow or adapt?
Discuss with a peer how you each build trust—compare stories and approaches.
Reframe “I need to solve everything” as “I need to ask the right questions and involve my team.”
Turn “Strong leaders always decide” into “Strong leaders adapt when new information emerges.”
Recast “My job is to decide” as “My job is to create conditions for smarter team decisions.”
Instead of “I should’ve handled that better,” say “That moment gave me data to use next time.”
Shift from “I need to fix this” to “How can I enable the team to solve this together?”
View vulnerability not as weakness but as credibility—it builds trust when modeled openly.
Watch your tone in meetings—do you model certainty, curiosity, or pressure? What effect does it set?
Observe how your presence shifts the room—do people open up, hold back, or defer decisions?
Track who speaks up and who stays silent—what dynamics are you unintentionally reinforcing?
Notice your body language under stress—are you showing calm authority or visible tension?
Monitor when you step in to “do” instead of “guide”—what belief is driving that choice?
Pay attention to how others lead when you’re absent—what culture does your leadership leave?

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