Ask your staff: “What’s one thing I could do this week to make your service role easier?”
Write a one-sentence leadership mantra that reflects how you want to serve—repeat it before each client interaction.
Thank a staff member publicly for their contribution—recognition is a core leadership behavior.
Schedule 15 minutes today to check in with a staff member informally—no agenda, just listening.
Share one personal service story to model openness and build trust with your team.
Observe one client meeting quietly without speaking unless necessary—practice active presence as a leadership move.
Reflect on a leader who positively shaped your business—what service behaviors did they consistently demonstrate?
Journal about a tough service leadership moment—what did you learn about your influence and decision-making?
Write down three service leadership strengths you bring—how often do you use them, and where can you improve?
Explore how your service leadership style has changed—what experiences shaped that evolution?
Reflect on a time you struggled to lead a service team—what did that teach you about clarity or confidence?
Think about your leadership “default mode”—directive, supportive, coaching, or adaptive? When is it effective?
Share a service vision publicly that stretches your team—invite feedback and commit to supporting the path forward.
Delegate a service task you usually hold onto—trust a colleague to deliver and coach instead of doing.
Have a difficult service conversation you’ve been avoiding—prepare carefully and prioritize clarity over comfort.
Ask each staff member this week: “What’s one thing you’d change if you were in charge?”
Volunteer to lead a project outside your usual service scope—practice influence in a different domain.
During your next meeting, pause and ask: “What am I missing?”—model inclusive leadership behavior.
Ask your team: “When do I lead service best—and when do I unintentionally hold us back?”
Request staff feedback focused only on your leadership impact—listen fully before explaining anything.
Share your leadership goals with a peer—ask them to hold you accountable for one behavior shift.
Invite a staff member to share how they perceive your leadership style—look for gaps between intent and impact.
Ask someone who leads differently to describe their approach—what can you borrow or adapt from it?
Discuss with a peer how each of you builds staff trust—compare techniques and stories.
Reframe “I need to have all the answers” as “I need to ask the right questions.”
Turn “Being strong means being certain” into “Real strength is adjusting when new data comes.”
Recast “My job is to decide” as “My job is to create conditions for smarter service choices.”
Instead of “I should’ve handled that client better,” say “That moment gave me data for next time.”
Shift from “I need to fix this” to “How can I enable the team to solve this together?”
View vulnerability not as weakness but as leadership capital—showing it builds credibility and trust.
Watch your language in meetings—do you lead with certainty, curiosity, or fear? What tone does it set?
Observe how others respond to your presence—do they lean in, hold back, or seek guidance?
Track who speaks and who doesn’t in meetings—what dynamics do you unintentionally reinforce?
Notice your body language when under pressure—are you modeling calm, clarity, or control?
Monitor when you default to “doing” instead of “guiding”—what beliefs are driving that?
Pay attention to how others lead when you're not present—what culture does your leadership leave behind?

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