Ask your team: “What one adjustment from me would help you perform better right now?”
Write a one-sentence leadership anchor that reflects how you manage up and down—repeat it before meetings.
Thank one team member publicly for a contribution—make recognition visible and tied to results.
Schedule 15 minutes today to connect with a direct report informally—listen without steering the talk.
Share one personal learning or challenge with your team—model openness and strengthen trust.
Sit in one meeting as an observer only—practice presence and active listening instead of leading.
Reflect on a senior leader who shaped your growth—what consistent behaviors can you model with your team?
Journal about a recent difficult leadership choice—what did you learn about your influence on results?
Write down three leadership strengths you rely on most—where do they serve you, and where do they limit you?
List ways your leadership style has shifted as your team grew—what experiences pushed those changes?
Write about a time you felt unprepared to lead—what did it teach you about clarity, influence, or resilience?
Think about your leadership “default mode”—is it coaching, directing, or supporting, and when is it effective?
Share your department’s vision publicly with your team—invite feedback and show how it ties to company direction.
Delegate a project you usually keep—coach someone through delivery instead of taking it back yourself.
Have the difficult performance conversation you’ve delayed—focus on clarity and fairness over comfort.
Ask each direct report: “What’s one thing we could change in our department if you were in charge?”
Volunteer to lead a project outside your core department—practice influencing beyond your scope.
Pause in your next leadership meeting and ask: “What am I missing?”—invite alternative perspectives.
Ask your direct reports: “When do I support your work best, and when do I create bottlenecks?”—note patterns.
Request 360-style feedback from your team only on your leadership presence—listen fully before replying.
Share your leadership growth goals with a peer leader—ask them to hold you accountable for progress.
Invite a team member to share how they perceive your leadership style—look for intent vs. impact gaps.
Ask a peer leader with a different style how they approach influence—compare and adapt techniques.
Discuss with a trusted colleague how each of you builds credibility with senior leadership—share stories.
Reframe “I must solve everything myself” as “I need to ask sharper questions and guide others’ answers.”
Turn “Strong leaders never waver” into “Strong leaders adapt when conditions change.”
Recast “My job is to decide” as “My job is to enable smart decisions at multiple levels.”
Instead of “I should’ve led better,” say “That challenge gave me insight for the next time.”
Shift from “I need to fix this issue” to “How can I empower the team to solve it collectively?”
View vulnerability not as weakness but as credibility—showing it builds trust upward and down.
Watch your tone in team updates—do you project confidence, curiosity, or pressure? What culture does it set?
Observe how peers react to your presence—do they see you as approachable, directive, or distant?
Track who dominates meetings—what power dynamics do you reinforce unintentionally?
Notice your posture under pressure—are you signaling composure, urgency, or defensiveness?
Monitor when you revert to fixing details instead of coaching—what drives that default?
Pay attention to how deputies lead when you’re absent—what culture carries forward without you?

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