Ask a client: “What’s one thing I can do this week to better support your leadership growth?”
Write a one-sentence leadership mantra for how you guide clients, repeat it before each session.
Thank a client publicly for their progress, recognition reinforces your role as a supportive guide.
Schedule 15 minutes to check in informally with a client, listen without agenda or advice.
Share a personal story with a client, model openness and build stronger trust.
Observe one client meeting quietly, speak only when needed, practice active presence as a coach.
Reflect on a mentor who shaped your coaching, what consistent behaviors modeled effective leadership for you?
Journal about a recent tough coaching session, what did it teach you about your influence and decisions?
Write down three leadership strengths you bring clients, how often do you use them, and where can you improve?
Explore how your leadership approach with clients has evolved, what experiences shaped the shift?
Reflect on a time you struggled to guide a leader, what did it teach you about clarity or resilience?
Think about your “default coaching mode”, directive, facilitative, or supportive, when does it work best?
Share a bold client-impact vision publicly this week, invite feedback and commit to supporting the path forward.
Delegate an internal business task you normally keep, coach someone else to handle it instead of doing it.
Have a tough coaching conversation you’ve delayed, prepare carefully and prioritize clarity over comfort.
Ask a client leader: “What’s one thing you’d change if you had full control tomorrow?”
Volunteer to lead or design a client engagement outside your usual focus, stretch into a new domain.
In your next client session, pause and ask: “What am I missing?”, model inclusive leadership behavior.
Ask a client: “When do I guide you best, and when might my style hold you back?”
Request leadership feedback from a client, listen fully to their perception before explaining yourself.
Share your leadership growth goal with a peer, ask them to hold you accountable for one shift.
Invite a client to describe how they perceive your coaching style, compare with your intent.
Ask another coach how their leadership style differs, what could you adapt from their method?
Discuss with a peer how each of you builds client trust, compare strategies and outcomes.
Reframe “I need to know all the answers” as “I need to ask better questions that guide insight.”
Turn “Strong leaders are always certain” into “Strong leaders adapt when new insights appear.”
Recast “My job is to decide” as “My job is to create conditions for smarter client decisions.”
Instead of “I should’ve handled that client better,” say “That moment gave me data to improve next time.”
Shift from “I need to fix this” to “How can I enable the client team to solve this together?”
Reframe vulnerability from weakness to leadership capital, sharing it builds trust and credibility.
Watch your tone in client meetings, do you lead with confidence, curiosity, or caution? What impact does it have?
Observe how clients respond to your presence, do they lean in, hesitate, or seek direction?
Track who dominates versus stays quiet in meetings, what dynamics are you reinforcing unintentionally?
Notice your body language under client pressure, are you showing calm, urgency, or control?
Monitor when you slip into “doing” instead of “guiding”, what belief drives that shift?
Pay attention to how clients lead when you’re not in the room, what culture does your influence leave behind?

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